Wouldn't you really rather stop, eat, and stay at places that appreciate your business? That's what Biker Friendly Online is allegedly all about. Before you take a trip for a week, a day, or a month, you check with them. Click on the state or states you'll be visiting and you'll find a listing of places that welcome biker business. At least, that's how its supposed to work. I noted that many states and areas are underrepresented or not represented at all. My state had no listings, a problem I plan to rectify soon. You can recommend places and the site operators will contact them. If they agree to be listed, you'll win a t-shirt.
Seems like a good idea if it grows. They also fill you in on helmet laws in the states you plan to visit.